Day 18: Paint your Nails
Ok, you don´t have to paint your nails. You can straighten your hair or curl it, or you can use a mud mask, or put some sparkly lotion on. Whatever floats your boat (or your husband´s).
It´s easy to let ourselves go a little once we have kids. (She types while still in pajamas...) BUT it is really important to make an effort to be our former, glamorous selves, only better because now we are glowing with motherhood! (haha.)
There are three good reasons to do this. Let´s start with the slightly selfish but incredibly powerful reason: You will feel sexy again! Woohoo! And that´s good for everyone. Because you´ll feel confident and you´ll smile, and that energy is a nice environment for others. Plus, it´s great for you.
The second reason is your hubby. He should not have to strain himself to remember why he married you. And, sorry, he definitely married you for your looks! Ok, there were other things, too, but he´s a guy. So understand his needs and don´t go a day without your makeup. But definitely try to do something at least once a week that´s a little more va-va-voom than just makeup and a ponytail. Even if it´s just painting your nails. He might not notice the nailcolor, but he´ll notice your confidence, which is sexy!
The third reason is to be a good example. Help your boys set a high standard for the woman they will marry someday, and help your girls set high standards for themselves as wives. The way we grow up has SUCH an influence on who we become and what we expect as adults. So do them a favor and teach them to value themselves! (And good hygiene!)
So, whatever girly ritual you like best, take 5 or 10 minutes and get it done! You´ll be glad you did.
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